Quotes: A four-year-old girl, in the
dramatic play area of her preschool, begins swaying her hips and singing, “Baby,
I’m your slave. I’ll let you whip me if I misbehave.” When her teacher goes
over to talk to her about it, she volunteers that she learned the song from her
eight-year-old sister. After doing a bit of research, the teacher discovers
that the words are from a highly popular Justin Timberlake song.
Halloween
costumes for young girls are so suggestive and risqué these days that Newsweek
runs a story titled “Eye Candy: Little Girls’ Halloween Costumes Are Looking
More Like They Were Designed by Victoria’s Secret Every Year. Are We Prudes or
Is This Practically Kiddie Porn?”(Levine
& Kilbourne, 2009)
Share your reaction to the topic of
the sexualization of early childhood.
Children are paying an enormous price for the sexualization
of their childhood. Girls and boys constantly encounter sexual messages and
images that they cannot understand and that can confuse and even frighten them
(Levin & Kilbourne, 2009). I feel so
strongly about this that I posted the above quotes on my Facebook. It will be interesting to see what kind of
response I get.
Provide three or more examples, from
your personal or professional experience, that further illustrate the exposure
of young children to a highly sexualized environment.
Personal experiences
include my own granddaughters: one five and the other twelve. The twelve-year-old has been exposed to
sexual interplay in the family situation she lives in. She is beautiful, the woman her dad is living
with styles her hair, and buys clothes for her that portrays her little sex
queen.
The five-year-old
dances and sways to many of the same kinds of music in the quote. She also says her favorite actor is Sheldon,
from the Big Bang Theory. Relatives and
friends laugh as they think it is so cute.
The third example
is my eleven year old niece. Her mother
allows her to read books that are far above her age and maturity. She posts things on Facebook that upsets me
because of all the sexual implications.
I have spoken to my sister about it but she said she has spoken both to
mom and the granddaughter and they neither one see anything wrong. One example she shared is: My only injection
is to marry One Direction.
Explain the implications this may
have on children’s healthy development. Include ideas you might have, as an
early childhood professional, to best respond to these concerns and to reduce
the negative impact on children.
First of all, I would like to say that lack of positive
supervision and teaching from the parents is a major cause of my two granddaughters have babies
outside of wedlock. I know that this is
not a usual occurrence but that is the problem.
This happens too often. I feel
that the parents are partially responsible from their lack of “parenting”. I know this is the case of both girls, one is
eighteen and the other nineteen. The
first one was called the princess and told how beautiful she was from a young
age. This is not a bad thing if they had
not dressed her with the exposure clothes.
The second was exposed unusual adult living styles and sexual approaches
in view of the children.
As an
educator of young children, I need to be s aware of play, talk and responses to
ways children express themselves. I
would address any issue that arose with the parents, and ask them how they
wanted me to talk to the children. As Levin
& Kilbourne says, how children are taught their value is determined by how
beautiful, thin, “hot” and sexy they are (Levin & Kilbourne, 2009).
I am aware that when children have too much sex on their minds, their mental development is impaired.
Describe the ways in which your
awareness of the sexualization of early childhood has been influenced and/or
modified by studying the topic this week.
I was made
aware that others are thinking about the destruction of our children’s purity
and innocence by all the sexualization of the media, music, books, iPods, and
other sources of media. I am thankful
that there are researchers who are working to protect children from this kind
of media.
References:
Levin, D. E., &
Kilbourne, J. (2009). [Introduction]. So sexy so soon: The new sexualized
childhood and what parents can do to protect their kids (pp. 1-8). New
York: Ballantine Books.